By all stereotypical accounts, I should be the least likely supporter of Barack Obama. I live in the reddest state in the nation. I am 34 year-old female with three young children. I am a Mormon who supports traditional family values. I have a college degree, and work for a Fortune 100 company. I am a registered republican, partly because there aren’t democrats on the ballot for many offices. I come from a long line of Republicans who have participated in the Idaho State Senate. In the Senate, they used to hold my Great-Grandfathers vote until the end, because everyone trusted his integrity and would follow his vote. I volunteer – I have been the den mother to help organize a struggling group of Scouts even though I only have daughters, I have helped children with disabilities, been the soccer Mom, and the Science Mom at school. My intent with this blog is twofold. The first is to educate you as I educate myself on the presidential process from the state of Idaho which will vary by state. I encourage others to share the process from their states. The second is tell the story of how a white woman reached the conclusion that Obama is the only candidate for president, and to encourage you to let your voice be heard in support of Obama.
After the chad incident in the 2000 election, I vowed to spend time better understanding the election process in preparation for the next election. 2004 slipped by and I made the same goal for the 2008 election. This time, I felt a greater urgency for my voice to be heard by our candidates, but really had no idea how that could happen. The goal became like a New Year’s Resolution, something I knew I needed to do, but really didn’t want to spend the time to engage. At first, I tried to ignore the debates and the chaos of the candidates. As I slowly began to listen, I became concerned in the dialog that was occurring. I found myself listening more intently to the candidates, and even attending a few presidential rallies.
I attended my first presidential rally on the 4th of July. Mitt Romney made a brief appearance in Idaho Falls, ID to garner support. We happened to be in Idaho Falls, and decided to go. His speech was earlier than planned, so we missed the 15 minutes he spoke. We watched him say his last few words, and drive away with his entourage. We took some pictures with a card board Mitt. Unfortunately during the debates, it appeared that there were not a lot of differences between the cardboard Mitt and the real Mitt. I believe Mitt was potentially one of the only candidates with the experience to help drive changes in the economy. Unfortunately, with the winner take all delegates strategy for majority of the Republican primaries, the writing was on the wall when Mitt lost Florida, and I began looking for another candidate to support.
John McCain would have been a likely 2nd choice. I was impressed by McCain in 2000, but he has steadily lost my trust and respect as the years have progressed. McCain is hot tempered. In the debates, his smirk doesn’t really cover-up his desire to yell. He appears to be vindictive, unable to resolve or let go of past issues. As a President, we need someone who can be diplomatic and calm. The US can not afford to have a president lose his temper and yell obscenities at leaders of foreign nations who may not easily follow the irrational demands of a hot tempered president. McCain lost my support when his temper got the best of him, and he loudly expressed to the press that he was a leader. He didn’t understand the economy, and he would bring people under him to take care of the details. I think we have experienced that for the past 8 years with Bush. History does not need to repeat itself.
My six year-old daughters announced that they were supporting Hillary Clinton. When I asked Rachel to support her decision, she said it was because she was a girl. I would like to support a strong female candidate. Many women tear down Hillary on things that don’t really matter like the color of her suits. My reasons for not selecting Hillary are simple. Integrity has never been a word synonymous or even close to how the Clintons operate. Their actions have demonstrated their belief that they are above the law, and so far in many instances they have walked away free, but not untarnished. In the February 4th edition of Newsweek, an article “Here an F.O.B, There an F.O.B.” was published. This article should be mandatory reading for anyone considering a vote for Hillary. An F.O.B. is defined as a Friend of Bill. The article highlights many of Bill’s shady business partners. It highlighted the fact that he is beginning to break ties with some of the less appropriate contacts – for example people who are under investigation for selling retired peoples’ names to scam artists. This is unacceptable in all instances, but especially for someone being entrusted to lead our country.
My children who have been persistent in the pursuit of understanding and participating in the election, were beside themselves with glee when Obama announced that he would be holding a rally in Boise, ID. I found myself in line early on a Saturday morning with my husband and three children. I was skeptical of what I would hear, and greatly underestimated the number of people who would attend the rally. Having never really been to a Democratic event, I anticipated the worst – crazy liberals. I appreciated the Obama volunteers who warned us of the protesters with graphic abortion posters, and was concerned that this might be how the entire event would proceed. After walking to every floor in the stadium, we ended-up on the floor standing less than 50 feet from Obama. As I looked around the crowd, I was relieved to find a beautiful tapestry of people who became woven together to hear the candidate of hope.
The event started late, as volunteers scrambled to set-up speakers for the crowds who could not fit into the stadium. From the moment Obama started my children were drawn to his message. They sat quietly and listened attentively to the message – a message that was simple, a message that gave hope, a message that inspired, a message that resonated for each of us – even their Mom who was not anticipating becoming an Obama supporter.
“Change we believe in” the message on a simple blue placard we waved at the event; now prominently displayed in the front window of our home. This is a message I believe and a message I am willing to support. I do not agree with all policies and issues that Obama supports. I know that he has the most liberal voting history in the Senate. I expect that during the next few months, there will be many skeletons that come out of his closet. I am prepared to hear them – so far I have found them amusing like the claim on plagiarism. I am supporting Obama because I am tired of the politics in Washington. I support his desire to decrease our dependence on foreign oil, and to move to alternative energy sources. I support decreasing the rising cost of education so everyone can attend college without loans equivalent to a mortgage. While challenging to implement, I support his idea to provide $4000 to college students in return for volunteer work at Veteran’s hospital and other organizations.